Online trolls are among the worst kind of people. We call them keyboard warriors – though this makes them sound brave and fearless, when in actual fact they are cowardly and pathetic creatures, hammering out abuse while often concealing their true identity. I imagine these ignoramuses to be friendless and living in their mother’s basements eating Pot Noodles. Moronic bullies can also be outwardly charming and would never yell in someone’s face – only in hiding. Stacey Solomon spoke out this week about dealing with
Social Media trolls who comment about her looks. Yes, Stacey: the crafting, organising, smiling, warmhearted bundle of sunshine whose biggest crime is probably that she pegs up her crisps – although this is actually a great kitchen
Hack. What could possibly enrage anyone about the mum of five and Loose
Women presenter, one of Britain’s best-loved homegrown stars? Was it when she spray-painted one of her kid’s hula hoops to make a
Christmas decoration or when she crafted with old ladies at the local care home? Her excessive fondness for ribbon? Oh yes, maddening. “I find trolls hilarious,” said Stacey. “I’ve made peace in my mind with them. Imagine going to all that effort to say something horrible.” She added: “This probably sounds weird, but I think I’m really pretty. I know that sounds big-headed, but I like what I look like. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with me.” Save on Urban Decay, Nars, Garnier and more in up to 60% off ASOS spring beauty sale M&S's £45 denim jacket that 'looks expensive' and is perfect for throwing over spring outfits Take a bow, Stacey – a woman who is clearly beautiful inside and out. If only we could all deal with nasty bullies with this much decorum. And to say she feels pretty… far from being big-headed, this is refreshing, admirable, and elevates her status further as a brilliant role model. Why should women not feel able to exude confidence without fear of being slammed as arrogant? Stacey is just one of millions attacked by cruel online trolls. I often think I’m glad I’m not famous or a teenager as these groups seem to suffer the most – but anyone can be attacked.
Singer RAYE has also revealed that she has received a barrage of abuse as a woman in the
music industry. She said: “People talk about my weight, people say I don’t look like a woman – really nasty comments that go round and round in your head.” Meanwhile, young people are falling victim to online body shamers and cyber bullies, leading to depression and worse. It’s easier said than done, but being more Stacey is an excellent tactic. Kill them with kindness.